There are many things that can go wrong or from bad to worse in a relationship... it is depressing how many couples split-up because of simplest issues. If you have the slightest feeling that your relationship is in trouble or if you wonder what went wrong in past relationships, take a look at the list below, these are five relationship mistakes that you should never make.
1. Infidelity
Absolutely unforgivable-you have seen couples that break up because of this, even families. It is hard to forgive and forget, broken pieces tend to remain broken, and unfortunately this is life. Don’t let this happen to your relationship, this is one of the main reason relationships end. Trust is difficult to earn and even more difficult to regain after an affair.
2. Private Investigator
If you check on your partner continuously, visit unannounced... he/she will get frustrated and stressed. Everyone wants freedom and privacy. For some love means trust and respect. Some people feel that if you cannot trust them then you don’t love them and no one wants to constantly be monitored by their partner as if they were a child. Therefore act as a lover, not a detective.
3. Lack of emotional support and attention
In a relationship mutual support and attention are essential. We are social beings and we feel most secure when we are with our loved ones. When we are not we often feel lonely and rejected. If you have such a problem, deal with it, do not avoid it. Try not to blame and become angry. Stay close to one another and learn from each other about what you need and want to make your relationship a success.
4. Fights
Let’s face it, in every relationship there are fights. Believe it or not, specialists say they clarify things, but do not dramatize, raise your voice or offend. Things clarify themselves if you have patience. The truth is in a relationship, when it comes to fights silence is golden and too many of them ruin what you both have built with love and care.
5. Boredom
Do not let boredom step in, be creative and spontaneous. Think of common hobbies and activities that make you both happy. When love is in the air, every day is a celebration of your relationship. Try doing various things together; even a bicycle ride in the park can be fun, as well as going to a movie, exhibition or a party.
Before doing anything that can affect your relationship in a negative way, think about it first and decide if it is worth doing it and ending up alone?
